Girl seeks to log all her observations of a society that stereotypes every person and hides the obvious unpleasant truths, that she feels is better off being discussed and recognized.If anything, for a life lived that is full and complete and not shortchanged.
Ladies, let me share with you on some fundamental truths about guys. You can choose to dismiss the following as the ramblings of an androgynous disillusioned female liberalist ( if you're a guy reading this ) or the gloves off tell all expose of society and men.
What Men ( Boys ) really really want..... It all depends on the AGE. Boys will be boys, always. When they're 15-20, they're a total waste of your time, other than the fact that they're perfectly used for carrying your 1 tone school bag. Boys this age, want nothing NOTHING other than the S*X word. Nothing else is on their mind other than the question - Do you wear a skirt ?
How close they are to you depends on how physically PRETTY you are vs. their Self Confidence. Most boys this age have little of either experience or confidence. Or maybe they both come together ? They will rank Girls in order of priority totally based on ONE criteria - your looks and your body !
To commit yourself to a boy at this age will only reflect either 1. your naivety belief in fairy tales 2. your commitment to dutting off all future choices and learning new experiences. Wake up Sister ! You're going places. You'll never stop meeting the right guy.
Boys..when they grow a bit older, say 21 to 25, start trying to land the perfect fish. Again, it depends on their all important sense of self worth. They will go on the dating game with as many women as possible under the pretext of looking for the right one. Doesn't hurt to have some fun while you're at it right ? That's their motto.
Boys again, when they start figuring out what they want , they're usually 26-30 years old by now, then start to be more stable and reliable companians to have around. This sentence should be followed by the usual fine print t&C.
Then again, this is not advocating that you only date older men, lest you think this is an endorsement for sugar daddies. Just open your eyes and control that inner core of your heart.Most Boys are not worth your heart till they are "old" enough to take care of it.
Let me see....if you really fell that he's Mr.Right. Sorry to burst your bubble, Dear. It's all relativity. The truth is that there is no Prince Charming with a White Condo in Hartamas, charging to rescue you on his White Porsche 911. There's only different guys, in different phases of their lives, who react to you based on what they want at a give time.
And there is only the person that you are most comfortable with. If he makes you laugh and entertains you...that's a bonus. You will probably fall in love with the "Perfect Guy" and break up & repeat the same spin cycle..at least 2 times - in today's modern society context - before you can find the "Perfect Guy" you can spend the rest of your life with.
End of the day you'll settle down with the guy, who's fault you can put up with - and vice versa. Live life - live it loud. Get burnt, get smarter, don't repeat the same. Don't live to please others, aim to be Happy =). Find value in yourself to contribute to your world at large.
xoxo
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